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Most of us don't live on an Island and no-one is an Island to himself/herself.

Friends, Family and even Christians who have no problem in relating to God often/sometimes have difficulties in relating as well as they or others would like them to. Here on this Page are some things for consideration, a few solutions and maybe a few challenges.

"Relational" plays a big part in our lives!

"Treat your friends as you do your pictures, and place them in their best light."

~ Jennie Jerome Churchill ~

Relationships are life's projects__ work at them and see them come out nice.

~ Janet Vargas

Appreciation - Learn to give flowers while people are still living” ~ Joel Osteen

Appreciate another's view take joy in something new. ~ Janet Vargas

He who refreshes others will himself be refreshed. ~ Janet Vargas

We're not going to separate Heavens__ let us live as if we're there now.

~ Janet Vargas

Everything does not have to go my way to have a perfect day. ~ Janet Vargas

“A smile is the beginning of peace.” ~ Mother Teresa

"The most important trip you may ever take in life is meeting people halfway..."


It is'nt important to win an argument but to see what Jesus meant. ~ Janet Vargas

I will not let people's behavior determine my behavior but look to God who is always at His best

and how He thinks of me. ~ Janet Vargas

"Guard your heart for from it flow the springs of life" and this keeps me above. ~ Janet Vargas

"Find the good and praise it"__do this with your love ones, friends and those around you.

“Children are apt to live up to what you believe of them.” ~ Lady Bird Johnson

“Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.” ~ Mother Teresa

“Inspire and bring joy to all those you touch.” ~ Rod Williams

“Good words bring good feelings to the heart. Speak with kindness, always. ” This effects both your heart and the one you're speaking to - I find this often.

~ Rod Williams 

Friendship is a 2 way street, you put in some effort and they put in some effort

and together, this keeps your friendship alive and flourishing.

~ Sheree Hanihan

“A friend is someone who reached for your hand and touched your heart.” Anonymous

Soul-mates are people who bring out the best in you. They are not perfect but are always perfect for you. ~ Author Unknown

My Nan. She always sees the good in everyone and always has a good word to say. She is also a good listener and never had a bad word to say about anyone. Everyone loves her!

~ Janet Vargas

Don't envy the life of others, for there are sure to be some things you would not rather.

~ Janet Vargas

I only choose to write positive things on this Web-Site. Everything has not been fine for me but I make the most of who and what I have__ this and Jesus makes me truly happy.

Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow; Don't walk behind me, I may not lead__ Walk beside me, and just be my friend. ~ Albert Camus

Sometimes people don't need a good speaker with plenty of advice, they need a good listener.

~ Janet Vargas

Don't expect your friend to meet your need but expect God to meet both your needs.

~ Janet Vargas

It is good to have some joy in friendship....not problems all the time. ~ Janet Vargas

It is good to make friends that bring out the best in us rather than the not so good traits.

~ Janet Vargas

Value your family as well as your friends......they're yours for a life-time. ~ Janet Vargas

Sometimes we listen to our friends better than our love-ones. ~ Janet Vargas

It is best to know how you can handle two arguments before you marry - that is a good way to gauge how you would be in marriage but "try before you buy" is so often damaging.

~ Peter Vacca

How many do you try before you buy? That can equate to the amount of damage you'll have

and/or your children. A parent's discontents can last a child's lifetime, and maybe yours as well.

~ Janet Vargas

Impatience to have a partner is always a mistake.....age or status should never be a deciding factor when it comes to marriage. ~ Janet Vargas

People usually show their best side before marriage and the other side later - illusions broken often lead to separation. The best insurance we can have for a permanent relationship is not in living together but in being your true selves before marriage - that is the true indicator and safer one.

~ Peter Vacca

Discontents can last a lifetime unless you work with them - see how you can bring out the best in each-other rather than give up easily on a marriage and search for someone-else who may not

satisfy. ~ Janet Vargas

It is'nt so much what we get out of a relationship but what we put into it. Both parties. So often, both husband and wife are not prepared to make the first step towards each-other......but just imagine the difference if both parties are willing to do those little things that improve things in their life together.

~ Janet Vargas

How is it that so many see the warning signs beforehand and marry anyway - an incompatablity of makeup - are we afraid to be single or think it will be forever? Better to be happily single than sad to be married. It's good to stop and think. Some relations are better nipped in the bud rather than later.

~ Janet Vargas

Second marriages are not always the happy marriages - sometimes we repeat mistakes - people have often found happiness in working at things with their first spouse and taking on transformation.

~ Author Unknown

"Unlike time and tide, true love waits forever." ~ Author Unknown

"We teach others how to treat us." ~ ANONYMOUS

"A clean conscience makes a soft pillow" ~ Author Unknown

"The art of being wise is to know what to overlook" ~ Author Unknown

"Don't major on minor things." ~ Author Unknown

Very often a change of self is needed more than a change of scene.

~ Arthur Christopher Benson

"Building trust means thinking about trust in a positive way" ~ Robert C Solomon

“Happily Single is holding out for the best and letting go of the rest. It’s saying “I will and I can” to YOURSELF before you say “I do” to someone else.” ~ Mandy Hale

Forget your differences and see the bigger picture (there are more views than mine).

~ Janet Vargas

“The best way to have the last word is to apologize.” Anonymous

“Being brave enough to be alone frees you up to invite people into your life because you

want them and not because you need them.” ~ Mandy Hale

"Those who bring sunshine to the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves"

~ James M Barrie

A person starts to live when he lives outside himself. ~ Albert Schweitzer

If you want to lift yourself up, lift up someone else. ~ Booker T Washington

"If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it."


You have to change on the inside before change will happen on the outside. ~ Joel Osteen

God's River flows through the Law of Love

Try it, Maintain it__ and be Blessed from Above.

"Yes, God's Love takes good care of me."

Make that your Song.....

"Love is always bestowed as a gift - freely, willingly and without expectation.

We don't love to be loved; we love to love."


Don't wait for your love-one to take the first step__ you take some first steps and let them catch on.

~ Janet Vargas

"A good plan today is better than a perfect plan tomorrow."


"Believe you can and you're half way there."

~ Theodore Roosevelt

"Why worry when you can pray?" ~ ANONYMOUS

"Encouragement is the oxygen of the soul."


"Hope sees the invisible, feels the intangible and achieves the impossible." ~ ANONYMOUS

"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make

our souls blossom." ~ MARCEL PROUST

The more we depend on God the more dependable we find He is."


"Have Faith in God - Faith is the substance of things unseen."

~ New Testament ~

"There are no shortcuts to any place worth going... "


"Instead of giving myself reasons why I can't, I give myself reasons why I can."

~ Author Unknown

“You can't change your past, and your future has not happened. Focus your energy on enjoying the moment you are living right now.” ~ Rod Williams

“Outer beauty pleases the EYE. Inner beauty captivates the HEART.”

~ Mandy Hale

"God loves each of us as if there were only one of us"



I've spent some hours over 2 days to find these Quotes and collate them together in a way that is uniform and beneficial.....and fine-tuned this Page to be appealing and effective. I trust that you have Enjoyed the experience!

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